Tuesday, October 23, 2007

9:48 PM

I see some nicks on MSN, and I feel saddened. Its disheartening to see that despite how intelligent these people are, they just can't get past the fact that not everyone is born with the same inclinations as the majority. Is it some kind of teaching from religion that, despite whatever it purports, still encourages people to apply peer pressure on each other on every facet of life? And if there are others who do not feel or act the same way as what is said to be the "right" way, then they are wrong? What if these people are very good friends? Some have actually told me that they would not retain the same level of relationship if that is the case.

Is there such a need?

Society is made up of individuals. I believe that despite our sexual orientation, everyone deserves the same respect. I cannot say that I know alot of homosexuals, but I know enough to say that they do not deserved to be bombarded with words like "gays are evil" everywhere, even on MSN nicks. Are they not people too? All I'm saying is, we are all entitled to our own views, but there is no need to use such extreme words to state your stand against something that is a reality. Let's all try to be civil and respect the other side, shall we?

In any case, as an atheist, I don't see how repealing s377a will make erode traditional society norms likethe family unit. Why would it? It would simply mean an acceptance by the society that these people exist among us, and like everyone else, have the freedom to experience relationships without hiding in the closet. Why would society deteoriate just because a simple law is repealed? We are merely giving proper acknowledgement to our friends who happen to have different sexual orientations. They still live among us, and contribute much value to our society.

That said, I do understand why the law was kept. The mainstream (and secular, may I add) conservatives are still very much the majority, and society needs to move at its own pace. But I see the campaigns, for and against s377a, as a chance for Singaporeans to become more open about their political views and voice their stands about issues. It is a good place to start, I guess, so that hopefully even a small, but vocal minority can ensure that Singaporeans do not all become apathetic in all issues.